Sunday Stream of Consciousness

It’s Sunday already! I’m not sure how this happened.

Happy father’s day to all the dads out there!

Even though last week we went out for brunch with my in-laws and thought that was our celebration, we went out again today, for dim sum. I have to tell you, this is only the second time I’ve been to dim sum and dudes, I hate it. It feels like culinary russian roulette. I have NO idea what I’m getting when I eat things on the lazy susan. Just not a fan, but I’m not a father, so I went for my husband.

Today at brunch my MIL looked at the baby, looked at me and goes, “I’m sorry Katie, but I don’t see any of you in him.” Uh, thanks? She also told me I don’t need to burp the baby as often while eating. Because she’s been around the entire past 5 weeks and has had entire 3 ounce bottle spit up on her from a lack of burping. Oh wait, no.

There is something going on with my stomach this week. I don’t know if I’m still adjusting to not being pregnant, but it is really unpleasant. I will go back to being lactose intolerant if it means no more of this nonsense. So far, dairy does not seem to be the irritant, though admittedly, nothing is clearly the irritant, which is frustrating.

We’re going home to my hometown this weekend for the first time with the baby. It’s a 3 hour drive, which won’t be fun, but it’s doable with a few stops. He has about a million great aunts and uncles waiting to meet him, as well as several cousins. I’m not sure if they’re second cousins or first cousins once removed or how that works at all, but they’re cousins, and they’re very excited to see him.

I officially gave up breastfeeding this week. I wrote about it at Babble, but the short version is that it wasn’t working, we were both miserable. I’m still terribly sad about it, I hate watching other people feed the baby because that was supposed to be my job exclusively, but I guess adjustments to expectations are a part of parenthood. That doesn’t mean I like them.

Does every member of Paula Deen’s family have a cooking show? Does anyone find it a little interesting that both of her son’s shows are about eating healthily?

Every time I watch Iron Chef America I think I want to make my own pasta. And then I think about how easy it is to pour pasta into a pot of boiling water verses making a dough, letting it rest, rolling it out, cutting it and then eventually putting it into boiling water. And truthfully, I’m pretty positive that my palate is not sophisticated enough to notice a major difference.

It’s after 10, so it’s cluster feeding time, so I’m done for the night. I’m hoping to start to post a little more here, but I’m also starting to study for my upcoming board exam, so we’ll see how I can swing procrastination with a baby. It’s my last test ever, but damn if I don’t want to study for it.

Have a good week!

5 Responses to “Sunday Stream of Consciousness”

  • Tia:

    If I’m reading this right, you’re pumping, right? That’s TOTALLY still breastfeeding! Give yourself some credit! :)

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  • Jessica:

    Holy hell, if my mother in law wasn’t Chinese, I’d be wondering if she was related to yours. Her assvice sounds like the shit I was told, along with the comments about how the kid didn’t look like me (which is hilarious, because now he’s like my doppelganger). After nine years of being with her son, she still can’t stand me. Tough shit for her, since I’m here to stay. :D

    I’m sad that you don’t like Dim Sum though, although the company you had to eat it with may have soured the experience. That is one of the nicest things my in laws introduced me to. The steamed pork buns and the stuffed eggplant are delicious.

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  • CK:

    Your MIL must be my MIL’s long lost twin! At least you seem to be way more tolerant than I am!

    Definitely not alone regarding breast feeding and knowing when to quit is the most important thing – it makes everything so less stressful. We had a difficult start in life (won’t go into details other than being born too early) and once home a month later, the little one was a trooper with the bottle and loved to take the breast, but never sucked enough milk out. LCs and OTs thought the little one was doing great, but we would weigh before and after a feeding and notice little to no difference. Every feeding I would do breast, bottle and then pump! That made little time to go anywhere! I did that for two months!! After two months, I decided to put an end to ‘breast feeding’ (more like breast sucking) and exclusively pumped and bottle fed for a total of 5 months. I actually wouldn’t share bottling feeding… that was something I was very selfish about and didn’t mind one single bit! :-)

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  • Kathy:

    The stomach thing? I can relate (maybe?). I won’t go into detail but after having a c-section I was in misery. It took them six months to determine I had IBS. It soooo sucked! But as long as I stay away from stress (ha!) dairy, eggs, gluten and soy (I miss pizza!) it doesn’t bother me too much. I hope your problem is just temporary and I wish the best for you!

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  • Stephanie:

    FWIW…breastfeeding my son in particular was rough. Just hard. It was worst at 5-6 weeks- did a lot of pumping and bottle feeding b/c it jut was.not.working. But, sometime between 6-8 weeks it got better. I hated pumping, so was glad when it started working :-) . Not sure where you fall, but maybe that would work for you if you wanted to try again/ keep trying.

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