Today began much as I had anticipated. I slept in until 9 (minus feeding the cats at 6:30 because it would apparently kill them to sleep in too…), my mom and I got on the road at 10:30, I had the first throw of death by hunger at 10:31 and even though google maps said that without traffic the hospital was only a 50 minute drive away, it took us the entire hour and a half to get there. Fun times had by all, let me tell you.

We checked in and because of a communications snafu, ended up sitting in the wrong waiting room for an hour. And by sitting, I obviously mean laying down on the bench, contracting 800 different diseases but trying to reduce the enormous head pain of being upright. Once that got sorted out, I was taken to the very same pre-op area where I’d spent my past 2 Fridays. It’s always nice when the nurses know who you are before seeing your chart.

My nurse got down to business and told me that she’d have to put in not one, but two IVs. She then took to alternately examining and smacking my arm to see if there were any good veins. She did not approve, nor instill confidence. A small lifetime later I had one IV in each hand and I had climbed on the gurney to go to interventional radiology.

Now, I’m not new to blood patches. I’ve had 2 now. They’re not a big deal. You lay on your stomach, they numb you, insert the needle (check it’s location on x-ray), take some blood and shoot it in. It’s not comfortable, to be sure, but just not that big of a deal.

I met with my neurosurgeon (more on that another time) and then was introduced to my anesthesiologist. Um, wait. What? Anesthesia? No. Just no. Anesthesia and I do not agree. In fact, we usually hate each other with the force of hours of dry heaving. After much convincing and hyperventilating, the anesthesiologist agreed to not use Propofol, but a different drug that would give the “twilight” effect.

I rolled onto the procedure table, my back was exposed and the anesthesiologist explained that he was giving me some Versed and Fentanyl. Before I could say anything, my eyes were droopy. I was awake, but dude, the world could’ve ended and I’d have smiled right through it. As it turns out, anesthesia and I don’t agree, but Versed and I are pretty much blood brothers.

The procedure itself was VERY uncomfortable because my neurosurgeon believes that the best way to do blood patches is to put as much blood in as he can before the patient cries uncle. And when you cry uncle, he puts a little more in anyway, just for good measure.

In a word: ouch.

The whole thing was over in less than 30 minutes and my mom was brought back in. And then she made a fantastic little mistake. She gave me my phone.

Um, I misspelled cake. I was clearly high out of my mind.

After my hour of coming down off my high resting the nurse came in to give me my post-operative instructions. I expected the whole lay flat for a day and take it easy nonsense. Which is why I literally laughed out loud upon reading my post-op notes.

“For two months: no high impact exercises, including running, jumping, bumpy rides, bending forward, or lifting objects heavier than 5 pounds, including heavy grocery bags. Walking or mild swimming in warm water is okay.”

Okay, first of all, high impact bending forward? How do you even do that? I really want to try it, because, dude, how wouldn’t that be awesome?

And mild swimming? Is that like halfway between drowning and freestyle?

But wait, there’s more.

“Sexual activity for 2 months: Female on top, male on bottom.”

Um.

Wow.

So, let me see if I can get this straight (and break everyone’s minds). No high impact exercises, including “bumpy rides” but the only way that I can have sex is on top?

I totally just got the high impact bending over restriction.

Honestly, I can’t wrap my mind around this. Have these people never had sex? Because that’s just not how it works. Or just never had good sex? And more importantly, what the hell kind of study did they have to do to figure out that being on top was less traumatic?

I mean REALLY.

I suppose I can’t hold too much of a grudge, I did get really high on some really REALLY good drugs today. And, you know, he might have repaired this headache, which I guess is probably a good thing. I suppose that in exchange I can stick to mild swimming, low impact bending over and dictated sex.

The sacrifices I make for my health. Sheesh.

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